Frases diversas...

Hoje, essa quinta feira, 21/06, foi uma quinta um pouco difícil.
Algumas frases ditas por algumas pessoas te fazem tanto mal, né. Elas não te deixam em paz e nem te deixam sossegadas,tranquilas.
"Você é péssimo"
"Você me decepcionou"
"Você não faz nada certo"
"Eu tenho pena de você"
E uma que aconteceu e foi dita por uma outra pessoa:
" Isso não é novidade".

Bom, essas frases foram as que mais me atingiram nesse ano, ou pelo menos as que mais me marcaram.
As 4 primeiras foram ditas pela mesma pessoa. Não é novidade. De onde veio , sei que virão mais outras. e no mesmo naipe. Se não for para mais, lógico.
A última foi por uma pessoa que, agora, gosto muito. Já gostava antes, de uma outra maneira, mas agora, eu continuo gostanto mas também de uma outra maneira. Uma maneira mais pura e trancendental....

E na conversa de hoje, me deu vontade de ver um vídeo que adorei na época que o vi pela preimeira vez.


Quindon Tarver - Everybody's Free (to Wear Sunscreen)
Quindon Tarver
If I could offer you only one tip for the future
Sunscreen would be it
The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved
by scientists
Whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more
reliable than my own,
Meandering experience

I will dispense this advice
Now

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth
Never mind, you will not understand the power and
beauty of your youth
until they've faded

But trust me
In twenty years, you'll look back at photos of
yourself and recall in
a way you can't grasp now
How much possibility lay before you and how fabulous
you really looked

You are not as fat as you imagine

Don't worry about the future
Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as
trying to solve
An algebra equation by chewing bubble gum
The real troubles in your life
Are apt to be things that never crossed your worried
mind
The kind that blindside you at 4 pm on some idle
Tuesday

Do one thing, everyday, that scares you

Sing

Don't be reckless with other people's hearts
Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours

Floss

Don't waste your time on jealously
Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind
The race is long, and in the end, it's only with
yourself

Remember compliments you receive
Forget the insults
If you succeed in doing this, tell me how
Keep your old love letters
Throw away your old bank statements

Stretch

Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you wanna do
with your life
The most interesting people I know
didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their
lives
Some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still
don't

Get plenty of calcium
Be kind to your knees, you'll miss them when they're
gone

Maybe you'll marry
M aybe you won't
Maybe you'll have children
Maybe you won't
Maybe you'll divorce at 40
Maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th
wedding anniversary
Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much

Or berate yourself either
Your choices are half chance
So are everybody else's

Enjoy your body
Use it every way you can
Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of
it
It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own

Dance
Even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own
living room
Read the directions, even if you don't follow them
Do not read beauty magazines, they will only make you
feel ugly

Get to know your parents
You never know when they'll be gone for good
Be nice to your siblings
They're your best link to your past
And the people most likely to stick with you in the
future

Understand that friends come and go
But with a precious few you should hold on
Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and life
style
Cause the older you get
The more you need the people you knew when you were
young

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes
you hard
Live in Northern California once, but leave before it
makes you soft

Travel

Accept certain inalienable truths
Prices will rise, politicians will philander
You too will get old, and when you do
You'll fantasize that when you were young
Prices were reasonable, politicians were noble
And children respected their elders

Respect your elders
Don't expect anyone else to support you

Maybe you have a trust fund
Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse
But you never know when either one might run out
Don't mess too much with your hair
Or by the time you're 40 it will look 85

Be careful of whose advice you buy
But be patient with those who supply it
Advice is a form of nostalgia
Dispensing it, is a way of fishing the past from the
disposal
Wiping it off
Painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more
than it's worth

But trust me on the sunscreen


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E dando continuidade vou postar uma música para meu amigo Claudio.
Você sabe que I really like you a lot!!

Regina Spektor - Fidelity
Regina Spektor



I never loved nobody fully
Always one foot on the ground
And by protecting my heart truly
I got lost in the sounds
I hear in my mind
All these voices
I hear in my mind all these words
I hear in my mind all this music

And it breaks my heart
And it breaks my heart
And it breaks my heart
It breaks my heart

And suppose I never ever met you
Suppose we never fell in love
Suppose I never ever let you kiss me so sweet and so
soft
Suppose I never ever saw you
Suppose we never ever called
Suppose I kept on singing love songs just to break my
own fall
Just to break my fall
Just to break my fall
Break my fall
Break my fall

All my friends say that of course its gonna get better

Gonna get better
Better better better better
Better better better

I never love nobody fully
Always one foot on the ground
And by protecting by heart truly
I got lost
In the sounds
I hear in my mind
All these voices
I hear in my mind all these words
I hear in my mind
All this music
And it breaks my heart
It breaks my heart
Breaks my
Heart
Breaks my heart


I hear in my mind
All these voices
I hear in my mind all these words
I hear in my mind
All this music
And it breaks my heart
It breaks my heart
Breaks my
Heart
Breaks my heart
and it breaks my heart
it breaks my heart
and it breaks my heart
and it breaks my heart